Posts Tagged ‘memorabilia’

16
Aug

Whatever Happened to Great-Granny Harriet?

   Posted by: Liz    in Burch family

Early in my genealogical endeavours, I was attempting to do as all the experts advised – start with what you know, and work backwards, one generation at a time. With my dad’s help, it was easy to record his grandparents’ details and to identify his great-grandparents. But filling out life details for that generation proved to be challenging and I continue to hunt for tidbits and facts about them to this day.

Census records (as mentioned in my very first post on this blog) were easily found for Edward Burch and his wife, Harriet (Thorp) and their family in Toronto – for 1871, 1881, and eventually 1891, with various family members appearing in and leaving the household over the decades of family life. However, in 1901 there was no sign of either Edward or Harriet at all.

Harriet (Thorp) Burch, taken from family portrait c1886

There was an interesting 1894 passenger record when they travelled to Kingston, Jamaica for their daughter Eva’s wedding (my 13-year-old grandfather, Ernest travelled with them), and I found a mention in a newspaper article of Edward attending his nephew Reginald Burch’s wedding in Toronto in 1906. But not Harriet; she had vanished from the records after 1894. One obvious possibility was that she had died, but a thorough search of Ontario death registrations did not reveal even a possible one.

On my visits to see my dad in Victoria, I offered to help clean out various closets, drawers, etc. that he was no longer using. One day, I tackled the little desk in his study, one he had used for writing sermons and paying bills. He no longer even used the room the desk was in, and had no clue what might be contained in its drawers, untouched for years as they were. What I discovered was a mixed bag: bank statements dating back to the 1970s, warrantees and operating instructions for various gadgets and appliances no longer to be found in the house and so on. My sister said I should just bag it all up for recycling and be done with it, but I preferred to look at each bit of paper to see if it was important.

And one day my vigilance (or obsession?) was rewarded. I opened an ordinary and apparently empty business-letter-sized envelope, and out drifted a tiny, yellowed newspaper clipping! Imagine my excitement (as only another genealogist can!) when I saw the following:

Later identified as published in the Peterborough Daily Examiner of 26 April 1898, Peterborough, Ontario

Of course, I would have loved to know what newspaper it was from, with a date and a page number, but at least some kind soul had written “1898” on it. With the many clues contained in this article, I set off to look for a Nova Scotia death registration–but alas, I soon found that they do not exist at all for this time period, so no joy there.

On a subsequent trip to Ontario to visit our kids, we travelled to Peterborough. While there, I acquired the cemetery burial record for my great-grandmother Harriet, though her name is not on the large stone. She is in a plot belonging to her niece and husband, Mr. and Mrs. William Meldrum. That record gave me the date of death, and a visit to the public library’s microfilm room at last revealed the origin of the clipping.

Although full of clues about the rest of the family, it raised lots of new questions, too: why was Ernest in New York? Where was her husband, Edward? Why was she buried in Peterborough and not in Toronto?

The stone on the Meldrum plot

I’m so glad I didn’t inadvertently throw out that envelope! I don’t think I would have ever considered Peterborough for either newspaper or cemetery research, as all other life events for Harriet had been in Guelph and Toronto, but Dad saved that little clipping. Wouldn’t it be nice to know who wrote “1898”?  Maybe someday!  

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5
Jun

Birchbark Letter

   Posted by: Liz    in Burch family, Gerald family

When my dad was just a boy, he and his parents lived with his maternal grandparents in Ottawa, at 336 Metcalfe Street. His grandpa, William John Gerald, had been retired from his position as deputy minister of Inland Revenue for some time in 1920 when young Gerry sent him a note with good wishes for his 70th birthday. Grandpa Gerald wrote back from their summer place in Deep River. Nine-year-old Gerry so treasured this letter that he saved it his whole life in this carefully-marked envelope:

The envelope was kept in a metal “treasure box”

Inside the envelope, I found two fragile pieces of birchbark chosen by Grandpa Gerald for his reply. The handwriting on the bark is faded and difficult to read, but modern digital photo editing can bring out most of the lettering. He used a nibbed pen for the first bit, with the ink flowing quite well at first, then failing, leaving only indentations in the bark. The last bit is in pencil, which has survived much better!

This is what the letter says:

Deep River Aug 3/20

My dear Gerald
Your very welcome letter of the 25th July conveying your good wishes for my birthday reached me to-day and I thank you for kind expressions. Glad to learn that you are all well. Uncle John, Aunt Addie and cousin Gerald came up by auto Saturday afternoon and returned by same means yesterday forenoon. Grandma and I are now all alone but enjoying ourselves. Today is bright

(2nd piece)

and hot and no indication of rain. Sorry about your train but you will have a much better one by waiting until the new ones come in. We expect to leave here Friday morning and will be home in the near future. With love to everybody great and small in which Grandma joins me, I am
Your affectionate Grandpa,
WJG

NB Your letter reached Mattawa, Chalk River and Point Alexander before it was brought here.
WJG

Here’s a map clip to show the route taken by the letter, a long way up the Ottawa River and then partway back down again:

It’s a privilege to be the custodian of a little treasure like this, and I hope it lasts at least another 103 years. No wonder young Gerry kept it safe for so long, such a unique message from his beloved grandfather.

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23
May

Autographs

   Posted by: Liz    in Borrowman families

Our great-grandmother, Lily Wilson Borrowman, was our Granny Borrowman’s mother. Born in Ireland, she lived most of her life in St. Catharines’ Ontario, except for a period of time in Toronto and four years homesteading in Alberta. Her husband, Adam’s family had settled in Whitby upon arriving in Canada, and it seems she was a fairly frequent visitor there. She was part of a large family and had many nieces and nephews.

Between 1878 and 1897, she collected autographs and sentiments in an album, somewhat sporadically, to be sure, but the collection reflects her various homes, friends and relatives.

The front cover, with its gold and silver decoration.

About a dozen of the fifty-five entries are undated; among the others, the earliest is from December 1877, written by her sister-in-law Lizzie (Elizabeth Borrowman) in Whitby, Ontario. It reads:

 “A Wish

I wish that happiness may fling

Her golden sunbeams round thy path

And hide thee ‘neath her downy wing

Till life’s rough storms away have passed.”

Some of the entries include sketches, either in black and white or coloured.  Lily’s other sister-in-law, Louisa, was an artist and an art teacher – her pencil sketch of fuchsia blossoms is quite lovely. It is dated September 1st, 1880, in Whitby.

Lily’s husband wrote in her book, adapting a poem by Alaric A. Watts, “Home,” sharing his sentiments about their happy and blessed home. I find it bittersweet, as it is dated between the death of their first-born child, John, in 1879 and the birth of our Granny in 1881.

Home is home, however lowly;

Peaceful pleasures there abide.

Soothing thoughts and visions holy

Cluster round our own fireside.

Though the outer world be dark

And its trials lashed to foam,

Safe within its sheltering ark

There is sure, no spot on earth

Can outshine the smiling hearth

Of a tranquil happy home.

Adam may have misremembered some of the words, but he didn’t have Mr. Google to remind him, as I do, and those he did include are a lovely message for his “dear wife,” Lily.

Nearly ten years later, as the family prepared to depart Toronto for the West, Lily’s pastor Alex Macgillivray, (serving at Bonar Presbyterian Church, and also a close neighbour on Brock St.) wrote an encouraging and apt message for her, mere weeks before they arrived on their land near Red Deer:

“The Lord thy God is with thee, whithersoever thou goest.”

Although many of the entries are religious in nature, or feature quotations of inspiring poetry, her younger brother claimed the back page of her book early on, writing in a more humorous vein:

 “Last but not least

“Tis always my fate

Below you will find

My name and the date.

February 17/79

Harper Wilson

It is something quite special to hold this book, obviously treasured for many years by Lily, knowing all these different relatives of ours also held it. To read their words, to see their signatures and drawings, is to reach lightly into the past to meet each of them, if only for a moment.

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10
Apr

The Burning Boughs, A Christmas Surprise

   Posted by: Liz    in Borrowman families

Vintage magazines can make for very interesting reading! The October 1920 issue of The Ladies’ Home Journal, which cost 20 cents, contained 212 pages filled with short stories, essays, fashion, home and garden advice and advertisements. These included still-familiar items such as Ivory Soap or Cream of Wheat as well as long-gone ones like the Electric Laundress (Cleans Two Ways!), the Victrola and many styles of corsets. I found a copy of this issue here.

My Granny, Edith Borrowman, was perusing her copy and came across a poem by Alfred Noyes with a reproduction of the vivid painting by William G. Krieghoff which had inspired it. This painting, entitled The Burning Boughs, was extolled by the Tribune journalist as quoted in my post of March 26, 2023.

Granny contacted the artist about acquiring the painting for her home and a correspondence ensued. I do not have Granny’s letters, only the replies that she received. Here is the first one, and my transcription of it, in which he says the painting is not available, but that he could paint a similar, larger one for her:

A second letter followed about a month later, explaining that he did have the original after all, and quoting a price for it, unframed. I love the reference to her sending him photos of her “sturdy son”!

However, unbeknownst to Granny, our Grandpa, Leroy Borrowman, had also been in correspondence with the artist, William G. Krieghoff, to acquire the painting as a surprise Christmas gift for his wife.

Here is the artist’s reply:

Clearly from this reply, Grandpa had asked for Mr. Krieghoff’s discretion in keeping his plan a secret from Granny. Notice that the letter is addressed to Grandpa’s place of work, his construction company.

This next letter shows that Grandpa has indeed purchased and paid for the painting, and had instructed the artist to ship it to his mother’s home address in Minneapolis, Minnesota. (Perhaps a Christmas visit was planned?) Mr. Krieghoff took the liberty of having it framed and also enclosed a second (deceptive) letter to be shown to Granny, regretting that the painting was no longer available; he hopes the subterfuge will ultimately appeal to her sense of humour! Seems it was a good thing Grandpa committed to the purchase when he did, as the poet who had been so inspired by it had also written, eager to own the original.

And here follows the letter suggesting that he had sold it to the poet, which was to be shown to Granny, no doubt to her great disappointment:

The final piece of correspondence is Mr. Krieghoff’s acknowledgement of receipt of the returned frame, which was apparently not to our grandparents’ taste.

All these letters together provide an interesting record of the provenance of the painting.

I can just picture Granny’s surprise and delight that Christmas when she did, in fact, receive The Burning Boughs. It graced her mantlepiece in Winnipeg for the rest of her life and is now much appreciated in my sister Jeanne’s home in Edmonton.

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2
Apr

The Birthday Cake Plate

   Posted by: Liz    in Borrowman families, Burch family

When my sisters and I were children, our birthday cakes were always served on a special plate, reserved for just that purpose. It depicts a scene of ducks flying over marshland, against a cloudy sky, with the various parts of the picture raised and contoured. As it also has plate-hook holes on the reverse side, I don’t think it was ever meant to be used for food. Perhaps it was the most appropriate-sized plate our mother had available and was special simply because it was only used for these festive occasions.

Birthday cake plate
The Birthday Cake Plate on my lace tablecloth

Our birthday cakes contained little treasures, usually small-denomination coins, wrapped in waxed paper.  If it was a layer cake, they would be nestled in the filling, but if it was a tall cake like a chiffon, Mum would slip a knife into the side of the cake before icing it and insert the coins at appropriate intervals so that most people would receive one. Hopefully, the birthday girl got the best coin! To that end, I think the picture plate helped with remembering where the treats were placed. I remember instructions like, “No, start cutting just here,”  with the plate facing the server.

Mum told me this plate was a wedding gift from William and Gwen Nutter, the parents of Alex Nutter. Alex, who was just six months older than Mum, had been her sweetheart before the war. He served on the destroyer, H.M.S. Jupiter, as an ordinary seaman in the Royal Canadian Naval Volunteer Reserve and was killed on active-duty 25 January 1941. His name appears on panel 8 of the majestic Halifax Memorial, which honours over 3000 Canadians buried at sea and also on page 40 of the Second World War Book of Remembrance, which is displayed in the Memorial Chamber of the Peace Tower.

The Halifax Memorial and Alex Nutter

The plate itself is displayed in my dining room, serving as my own small memorial of Alex, and our young mother’s grief, but it is also a reminder of prairie sloughs and the delight of hearing returning waterfowl and the hope that springs anew each year, and of course, of many happy birthdays past.

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26
Mar

The House with the Garden Room (part 2)

   Posted by: Liz    in Borrowman families

The Tribune article continued to describe other finds and treasures in Edith Borrowman’s home, most of which are now appreciated in one or another of her grandchildren’s homes. It is lovely to know where each item has come from and to know its story before passing it to yet another generation. Art, flowers, light–all these are important to each of us today, too.

“The visitor crosses a small hall to a big living room — with windows west and south–which rises up three steps to the garden room beyond. All dull golds and soft greys this room is, with Mrs. Borrowman’s favorite color, flame, for the accent. “We built it around the painting over the fireplace, because I have a passion for Ontario maples.” It is William Krieghoff’s The Burning Boughs. The poet Alfred Noyes coveted it as well as Mrs. Borrowman. He wrote a poem to it, a copy of which is pasted to the back of a small reproduction of the picture, which hangs in another room. The line “And the clouds of the sunset burn on the maple bough,” describes the painting and the room. Grandmother’s brass candlesticks brought from Scotland in a sailing vessel stand one each side of The Burning Boughs.

The Burning Boughs by William G. Krieghoff, which now hangs in Jeannie’s home
One of the pair of candlesticks, now resident in Peggy’s home in Edmonton

“The house-finder loved another spot; the little walnut desk with its pot of pussy willows and the boxed framed daguerreotypes on the wall behind and Marie Guest’s painting of silvery crocuses. The pot was lovely: grey green, with a frog’s head in relief, as he reached out to put a hand on a lily pad. “Simple jars with dull surfaces are right for flowers,” says Mrs. Borrowman, “but they’re hard to get.”

Marie Guest’s painting of crocuses, which hangs in my hallway
The frog-and-lilypad pot, also in my home

The Famous Wolseley Elm

“Number 1192 is opposite the famous Wolseley elm in the middle of the road. “That’s one reason we chose this site.” The times were recalled when the axe had threatened it and the community had risen up. Eighteen years ago, when they built the house, the family got to know little Mrs. Good, who lived opposite, the planter of the tree during the 1850’s.

“Sit down here, look!” invited the beauty-lover. Bits of ice were sliding lazily eastward. You felt dazed and happy: you were on the river, gliding, going nowhere. At your feet lay a little grey hooked rug with roses in it. A beautiful, quilted spread “done by a girlhood chum” was brought out. Sweet peas made a garland. There were blankets on the sunroom roof where the son and daughter were doing their university studying.

“Then down for tea by the fire, where tight-rolled logs of newspaper gave off colored flames. “I dip them in a solution.” You must sit on the grey chesterfield a moment to see the westward sky. “Mr. Fitzgerald says it’s a Corot frieze, that bit.”

Here also was Philips’ bend of the Assiniboine by Omand’s creek; Franz H. Johnston’s Black Eagle pine tree picture; Tom Tomson’s Lone Pine Tree, and a copy of Millais’ The Cabbage Woman.

Franz Johnston’s Black Eagle Pine, in Jeannie’s home
[The back of the board says $35, his signature and T. Eaton Co.]

“The garden outside you pictured as the tale was told. It starts here under this arch where Heavenly blue morning glories bloom and winds by a cobblestone path to the Japanese tea house with the curly roof that hangs far out over the river. “From snow to snow there is something blooming; the little blue scillas first, and the tulips, and in the end the scarlet asters. I have 500 gladioli — I need something for cutting.” The lakeside church is supplied with blooms every Sunday.”

News article written by Lillian Gibbons, Winnipeg Tribune, 22 April 1939

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